Letter to My Sisters and Brothers

Victims of Hurricane Katrina

Dear Loving Souls,

As we are all the children of God, may I take the liberty of addressing you as relations?

What you are going through emotionally, physically, and spiritually is beyond our worst fears as human beings.  Never in our life time could we have imagined such horror.  I am sure for many of you it is hell at best.  For some, you would rather die than awaken from this horrible nightmare.  How could this have happened? 

We are never going to be able to answer the why’s of a natural disaster but we can come together as family and gather strength in unity.  The entire world is holding you in their thoughts and prayers.  Feel our support; know that you are not alone.  Millions of us are contributing money; many people are donating their efforts in relief training, members of the medical community are ready to help and others pray and visualize around the clock for your recovery.  Your suffering is our suffering; please recognize that you are loved.

Although I have never walked in your brand of shoes, I have reached bottom.  Many years ago I was sick, desperate and severely depressed.  I was about to give into suicide when I was saved by a compassionate voice on the telephone.  This man was doing volunteer work on the night shift on the Suicide Prevention line.  He hung in there with me and listened to my crying for over an hour.  When there were no tears left, he slowly and tenderly guided me back from the limitless pit.  I don’t remember much of what he said to me but I clearly felt his thoughtfulness and concern.  I hung on to that feeling for a long time.  This is what I am asking you to do.  Each day and in every way, we care.

I know this tragedy is still new and you are riddled with grief, but will you try something that helped me cope with the pain and confusion.  Find one thing that comforts you:  a smile on a child’s face, a story of shared experiences, a hug from someone reaching out, or joy in reconnecting with a loved one.  Focus on one positive element, even if for a few seconds, or a few minutes.  Slowly, oh very slowly, these positive feelings will grow.  In time you will heal.

Because of the magnitude of this catastrophe, I am sure you feel that any effort you make to sustain a good attitude is futile.  When it comes to recovery, we need to dig deep into our soul and muster every bit of courage possible.  You can do it!  Our prayers are with you.

With Love and Light,

Kay Kopit